My expectations

A colleague advised me to put the focus in my work and studies, the rest are not so important. I gave a thought and some may be applicable to me. But, must at least to be loved by someone somehow this has not come true for me. Maybe i was not fated to have such fortune haha...Well, i must pull my socks to do some things meaningful. To be more generous in others, forgive small tiny issue that has mattered to me. I have been generous to others as much as i could. Did the rest do this to me too? I need some recognition and encouragement too. Am i hoping too much? Not really.